Wednesday, June 6, 2012
ABOUT THE INDIAN GUY AT THE MOTEL
Monday, April 30, 2012
Simple and effective home remedies
IMPACT OF THANE CYCLONE
In short it was a night mare.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
FAULTY PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIPS.
Parental
relationship
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Child Behavioural Pattern
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Physical neglect, denial of love and affection,
harsh or inconsistent punishment, failure to spend time with the child, lack
of interest in his/her activities and achievements and lack of respect for
the his rights and feelings as a person.
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Thumb sucking, bed wetting, aggressiveness,
negativism. Jealousy, Slowness in conscience development, self-hurting
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Over protection and domination. Submissiveness. low
self-evaluation, some dulling of intellectual striving, dependency
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Submissiveness. low self-evaluation, some dulling of
intellectual striving, dependency.
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Over permissiveness and over indulgence.
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Selfishness, demanding attitude, inability to
tolerate frustration, lack of responsibility, stubbornness.
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Perfectionism with unrealistic demands.
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Severe conflicts, self-condemnation, guilt,
rigidness; lack of spontaneity
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Lack of discipline, harsh, overly severe discipline,
inconsistent discipline.
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Aggressiveness, antisocial behaviour, fear, hatred
of parent, little initiative, lack of friendly feelings towards others, over
conflicts
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Contradictory demands and communications
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Unclear self-identity, lack of initiative,
self-devaluation, low self-confidence.
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Undesirable parental models.
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Formulation of unrealistic goals, delinquency. extreme anxiety, nervousness.
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Based on this, child rearing attitudes could be improved. Psychological counselling could be offered to
alleviate healthy parent-child relationship and to prevent certain unwanted behavioural patterns in
children.
Thursday, October 6, 2011
DIVINING OF MATERIALS HIDDEN BELOW THE GROUND.
Many years back I came across this material. I do not recollect the source. It was not from internet as I read this before Internet came in to existence. I have not tried this myself. But I have a firm belief that it will work as the magnetism of the human body is well established / experienced now.
Take 2 lengths of copper wire -1/16" thick and 34" long. Now bend the last 6" of each wire at right angles forming 2 'L's. The short 6" of the wire serve as handle; the long 28" wires serve as pointers.
Hold the 2 rods lightly-one in each hand. They should be 12" apart, parallel to each other and parallel to the ground. The grips should be held loosely in a vertical position. Now commence walking slowly over the ground concentrating on the object of search.
If it is a water pipe your are seeking to find, then when you approach or cross the buried pipe, the divining rods will tremble and swivel inwards and cross over each other at the precise spot.
However, there is a strange anomaly; if your blood group is RH negative, the rods will swivel outward to either side instead of singing inwards and crossing.
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Anna Hazare
i got this forward in my in box and i think it is vital that the message spreads to more people. So i have chosen to post it here.
1. Who is Anna Hazare?
An ex-army man. Fought 1965 Indo-Pak War
2. What's so special about him?
He built a village Ralegaon Siddhi in Ahamad Nagar district, Maharashtra
3. So what?
This village is a self-sustained model village. Energy is produced in the
village itself from solar power, biofuel and wind mills. In 1975, it
used to be a poverty clad village. Now it is one of the richest
village in India. It has become a model for self-sustained, eco-friendly &
harmonic village.
4. Ok,...?
Anna Hazare was awarded Padma Bhushan and is a known figure for his
social activities.
5. Really, what is he fighting for?
He is supporting a cause, the amendment of a law to curb corruption in India.
6. How that can be possible?
He is advocating for a Bil, The Jan Lokpal Bill (The Citizen Ombudsman Bill),
that will form an autonomous authority who will make politicians
(ministers), beurocrats
(IAS/IPS) accountable for their deeds.
7. It's an entirely new thing, right..?
In 1972, the bill was proposed by then Law minister Mr. Shanti Bhushan. Since
then it has been neglected by the politicians and some are trying to change the
bill to suit thier theft (corruption).
8. Oh.. He is going on a hunger strike for that whole thing of passing a Bill !
How can that be possible in such a short span of time?
The first thing he is asking for is: the government should come forward and
announce that the bill is going to be passed. Next, they make a joint
committee to DRAFT the JAN LOKPAL BILL. 50% goverment
participation and 50% public participation. Because you cant trust the
government entirely for making such a bill which does not suit them.
9. Fine, What will happen when this bill is passed?
A LokPal will be appointed at the centre. He will have an autonomous charge,
say like the Election Commission of India. In each and every state, Lokayukta
will be appointed. The job is to bring all alleged party to trial in case of
corruptions within 1 year. Within 2 years, the guilty will be punished. Not
like, Bofors scam or Bhopal Gas Tragedy case, that has been going for last 25
years without any result.
10. Is he alone? Whoelse is there in the fight with Anna Hazare?
Baba Ramdev, Ex. IPS Kiran Bedi, Social Activist Swami Agnivesh, RTI activist
Arvind Kejriwal and many more. Now Aamir Khan.
11. Ok, got it. What can I do?
At least we can spread the message. How? By Putting this on our status
message, links, video, changing profile pics...
Mera Bharat Mahan!
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Be Indians.
I recently received the following forward from my friend Mr M S Ravikumar.
An American visted India and went back..
Indian :”What Nonsense? Who else could you meet?”
This forward I received from another source also a few months back and my reaction at that time was that we are Indians first and last. But getting the forward once again has set me thinking. Why we are not united as the Americans (a pluralistic society)? What prevents us coming near to each other and stand with a single identity? I think the languages divide us .Hence my reply to Mr Ravikumar on the following lines.
Single Nation, single flag, single language. Then we would be speaking in one voice.
Actually we are a collection of States, not like US but as
To call Hindi as the Official language, relegating English to the 2nd place as the link language is still funnier. I personally feel that English, if allowed to continue as the sole language of the Government, both at the centre and States we might have been more united and more progressed, instead of wasting our time and energy in translating English text books into regional languages and doing brain (!) storming to coin equivalent words or expressions to an invention abroad.
We last sense of direction, after the death of Jawaharlal Nehru and drifting apart. Stressing the individuality has undermined the unity. Unity in diversity has come to Diversity at the expense of Unity.In any relationship, some compromise is needed by the individuals involved. To remain as a strong nation and continue as the largest democracy in the world we need a common language like English which is widely spoken and understood through out the subcontinent.Regional languages,including Hindi, can flourish in literature,art , culture , entertainment and of course in local politics,if you treat it as another form of entertainment!