Wednesday, June 6, 2012

ABOUT THE INDIAN GUY AT THE MOTEL


Dear all I wish to share with you the views of an American blogger Bob
Lonsberry  regarding hard work and the evils of food stamps, welfare measures etc given to the US people which make them more and more dependent on the State with no productivity for the State and no improvement in their own lives. Let us view this  in the Indian context and see how we spoil the psyche of the BPL ( Below Poverty Line) families with our free rations and free utility articles . These aids given, more with the vote catching in mind , than helping the poor makes them to choose an easy way of life and avoid doing serious work . It is detrimental to the country and also the people themselves in the long run.

ABOUT THE INDIAN GUY AT THE MOTEL –  Bob Lonsberry ,
Written May 15, 2012
  
Gujarat is a state in the west of India, home to the Gujarati people, some 60 million of them, who speak their own language and have their own history.
Mahatma Gandhi was born there. And so was the guy who runs the motel in your town. Odds are, at any rate.

In the United States, some 40 percent of all the hotels and motels are owned by Indians – almost all of them from Gujarat. Among American economy motels, specifically, more than half the owners are Gujarati.

There is something called the Asian-American Hotel Owners Association. It is a powerful professional group with more than 10,000 members. Some 90 percent of those members have the same last name – Patel – a name dominant in Gujarat.

Which raises the question: How did the Indians, particularly from one relatively small region of India, come to dominate the American lodging industry?
The answer, in short: Hard work.

About 30 years ago, Gujarati began immigrating to the United States.
They typically brought with them the clothes on their back and an ancestral work ethic.

They also carried the desire to be the boss, to be business owners, not to be another man’s employee. Like generations of previous immigrants, they carried an American dream of their own creation and distinctive bent.

Coincidentally, about 30 years ago, there was a downturn in the
American motel industry. Low-end motels were hard work and offered a limited return, and owners were eager to get out of them.

A handful of Gujarati stumbled across this opportunity. The motels could be had for almost nothing up front, and they came with housing for the immigrant family. And that immigrant family provided a roundthe-clock workforce. It was incredibly hard and endless work, but the efforts of the immigrants were up to the task, and these first few families found first a living, and then success.

And they told their friends.

And they expanded, by buying more motels, and by moving up the economic ladder to larger and nicer motels and hotels.

Back home, as others sought to emigrate to the United States, word of success in the lodging industry spread, and newcomers replicated that success, finding for themselves motel opportunities.

Interestingly, these people came with almost no money. And they came with no background whatsoever in the lodging or hospitality industries. All they brought was a willingness to embrace any opportunity and to work hard to make it a success.  
And they have done that.

In something between 20 and 30 years, Indians – who are about 1 percent of the American population – have come to dominate this industry. They have built solid lives for themselves and their employees, and their children have gone on to be educated and move into the professions.

It is a stunning success story.
It is a reminder of the potential prosperity of immigrants who go to work instead of to the welfare office.

It is proof of the continued vigor and opportunity of the American economy and the free-enterprise system.

It is the American way proven again by newcomers’ hands.
But it is more than that.

It is also something of an indictment of native-born Americans who have lingered in poverty and government dependence.

Part of the horrific welfare plague is the curse of idleness it imposes on recipients. The slavery of dependence takes initiative from people, and strips them of the instinct of self-reliance. They become good at nothing, and particularly good at doing nothing.

And with the cloak of entitlement drawn over their eyes, they fail to see liberating opportunity, they become unwilling to do the backbreaking work necessary to lift themselves out of their circumstances.

When the first few dozen essentially penniless Gujarati discovered the opportunity of the then-dying motel business, there were tens of millions of native-born Americans, food stamps in hand, who were blind to the opportunity around them. While the newly arrived Indians worked day and night, the entitled Americans kept drawing a check, and now that the Gujarati children are successful business people and college graduates, the dependent Americans wallow in the mire of another generation of welfare shame.

The moral of this story?

Good for them, and shame on us.

It doesn’t matter where you’re from, it matters how you live. You get out of life in proportion to what you put in.

These Indians have been better Americans that some of us who were born here. They have lived closer to our traditional values, and their choices have been truer to our heritage.

Sadly, some of us will resent them. Instead of emulating them.

We will curse them for their success, rather than do what is necessary to find success ourselves.

It is not foreign invasion which threatens America, it is internal decay. Few things foster that internal decay more than entitlement and government dependence.

And we will either realize that, and do something about it, or we will perish.

 For original article visit
http://www.lonsberry.com/writings.cfm?story=3364&go=4

Monday, April 30, 2012

Simple and effective home remedies




Here   are   some   doctor-approved home remedies that cure back pain, headaches, insomnia, and much more, Home remedies are a staple of natural medicine. They are cheap and fast, often work just as well as a drugstore fix, and may be as near as your spice cabinet, refrigerator, or laundry room.

Sore throat
Mix together a clove bud, which is anti­septic and fights infection, with 1/4 teaspoon powdered ginger (or 1 teaspoon grated fresh ginger) and 1/8 teaspoon cinnamon — the latter two because of their anti-inflammato­ry properties. Infuse the tea in 2 cups boiling water, and for every cup, stir in 1 teaspoons soothing and sweet raw honey. Sip throughout the day until your throat settles down.

Dandruff
Douse it with a cup of antioxidant-packed green tea. which will naturally exfoliate dry flakes without dehydrating skin. Steep two bags of green tea in 1 cup hot water for 20 minutes to overnight. Once it has cooled, massage the strong tea into your scalp.

Pimples
Treat them with tea tree oil and witch hazel, both of which have antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties. As soon as you feel a pimple forming, dot either tonic on the area twice a day for 2 or 3 days. Never use rubbing alcohol because that only dries out and irritates skin without having any effect on the bacteria that cause acne.

 Sunburn
Take a lukewarm bath with 1 cup added ground oatmeal (grind it with a mortar and pestle; instant oatmeal works fine), 1 cup whole milk, 2 tablespoons honey, and 2 ta­blespoons aloe vera gel. Oatmeal is anti-in­flammatory, honey is antiseptic, milk's proteins and fats soothe skin, and aloe numbs pain. Afterward, moisturise with a cream containing hydrating shea butter and aloe.

Diarrhoea
Drink a cup of chamomile tea. The herb has an antispasmodic effect that stops con­tractions in the lower intestine.

Flatulence
Sip one cup hot water steeped with 1 tea­spoon caraway seeds, which stifle the en­zymatic action that causes gas.

Warts
Clean the area. Then cut a piece of duct tape to a size slightly bigger than the wait. Apply the duct tape to the site and rub into place. Every three days, remove the tape and file down dead skin with a pumice stone or nail file. Repeat until the wart disappears. Chemicals in the tape suffocate and kill the wart.


SUPPLEMENTS: THE ESSENTIALS
These are the natural fixes experts trust. Follow label directions and use them to :

GET ENERGIZED

1 ) Ginseng
 (Chinese herb with palmately compound leaves and small greenish flowers and forked aromatic roots believed to have medicinal powers)

All varieties of ginseng stimulate the re­lease of an adrenal hormone called ACTH, which increases alertness and physical per­formance. Look for products that contain 4 -5 per cent ginsenosides, the root's active ingredient. Caveat: Do not use ginseng if you're taking antibiotics or the blood thinner warfarin.

2) Guarana

The seeds of guarana, a Brazilian shrub , boost memory, mood, and alertness. Caveat: Be­cause guarana contains caffeine, do not use if you have high blood pressure or a heart condition.

BEAT PAIN AND   inflammation         

Omega-3 Fatty Acids   
Found in fish oils and   flaxseed, omega-3s effectively tamp down inflam
mation and pain. Caveat:       Because   omega-3s  thin        the biood, do not use if  
you are already taking a daily dose of aspirin or warfarin. Capsaicin compound found in  hot peppers . Capsaicin soothes sore muscles by
first  stimulating, and then decreasing pain signals.
  
IMPROVE DIGESTION AND REGULARITY

1.Psyllium Husks (Plantain of Mediterranean regions whose seeds swell and become gelatinous when moist and are used as a mild laxative - fleawort, Spanish psyllium, Plantago psyllium)
Taken with at least 8 ounces of water or juice as a fibre powder, psyllium aids in the absorption of food and prevents constipation by absorbing liquid in the intestines, making a softer stool that's easier to pass. Caveat: Use as part of a daily wellness regimen; do not use if you have stomach pain, nausea, or vomiting.

2.Ginger
The active ingredients in ginger root can calm queasiness and relieve indigestion and excessive gas.

BOOST IMMUNITY PROBIOTICS
A Swedish study found that employees given "healthy" bacteria supplements every day missed less work because of illness than those given none.
Andrographis (Kirayat in Hindi , Nilavembu, Sirunangai, Siriyanangai in Tamil)

Our natural-health advisor, James Duke, vouches for this Asian plant's ability to pre­vent colds or curtail their symptoms.
New York Times News Service


Courtesy : The Hindu

IMPACT OF THANE CYCLONE


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Cuddalore                                                                                      Date line 08/01/2012


Thane was announced  well in time. But nobody thought it would be of such a magnitude creating  havoc in the life of so many people. Unlike the tsunami of 2006 loss of life was negligible. The damage to infrastructure –power , water supply and communication systems, crops, poultry was immense.
The power supply was cut on the night of 29th Dec as a precautionary measure.It failed when the cyclone struck in the early hours of 30thJan 2012.It was  restored only today 8th Jan by 6 pm in Cuddalore. The power supply to rural areas and to agricultural pump sets is yet to be restored. The cyclone did a heavy damage to Cuddalore district and Pondicherry. Thousands of trees every where have fallen. Electric posts have fallen in large numbers about 5000. Besides, about 300 transformers have been dislodged. Crops in lakhs of acres have been damaged due to the cyclone  Cashew, casuarinas, sugarcane, coconut paddy all lost over night. I also incurred loss due to falling of teak wood trees  (21) and coconut 50. coconut trees are 5 years old and expected to bear next year. The moringa and lime trees in my kitchen garden and neem tree in front of our house were all damaged. The 5 feet dish antenna I had in the 2nd floor terrace was lifted  (அலேக்கா) over the 3 feet parapet wall and it fell on the compound wall breaking the custard apple tree (சீத்தாப் பழம்) and damaging the service wiring from the street post.

 In major parts of Cuddalore power is yet to be restored. We were literally in dark as cell phones could not be charged and many cell towers did not function after the cyclone. Only BSNL cells worked fairly well despite their main tower in the town falling on the fateful day. The towers were powered by generator. Power was given to the one of the main roads after 6 days. Now every day they are setting right one after other. Even today in my street only 2 houses are powered and the rest are in dark as they are served by  another transformer. People suffered as there was no water supply from 30th till about yesterday. Some thing was done by water tanker lorries here and there on some days which could not meet all the needs of all the people. We had to here in generator to run the motor to lift water. Generators were in demand and we had to pay more and use influence to get one. Since I had a bigger tank and as it was filled on 29th we could manage for the first 5 days and then got the generator. 
Milk was sold for as high as Rs 100 a litre on 30th.It was in short supply in the first 4 or 5 days. Now it is more or less normal. The condition the rural areas is still worse. No water supply and no power supply. Agricultural pump sets can not be run for another one month at least .Kerosene was not available and it was also sold for up to Rs 100 per litre. Then it was not available as all had to use it for lighting. All essential things like candles, rava, maida etc were charged exorbitantly on 30th and 31st. Then it was out of stock as roads were blocked by fallen trees.
In short it was a night mare.
I took some photographs of fallen/broken trees on 30th Dec. But due water drop falling on the camera it has been short circuited and I can hope to see and share the photos only after taking to the Sony service centre.
The Government has announced relief and it has not reached every body as there is no scientific method to ensure that it reached all the affected people. The pity is what is happening in the district is known to all others and not the residents in the district as there is no power in most of the areas till now. Cable TV has failed as many dishes have been damaged. 

The worst was what happened to my Sony digital camera. It was damaged when I attempted to take a photograph of the fallen dish antenna using flash. The technician says it can not be repaired as the circuit board has been damaged
It is a mad mad world and it is a sad sad story. I will stop here as I am afraid you may start crying!

Saturday, October 8, 2011

FAULTY PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIPS.


                   
 FAULTY PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIPS.

 The quality of parent - child interactions gains prominence in view of the marked impression it has on the child's further development. Personality disposition of the child is moulded by his Parent child relationship plays an important role in the personality development of the child. reaction to parental behaviour.
   As the infant progress into childhood, he must master new competencies, learn usable assumptions about himself and the world, and exert increasing inner control over his behaviour. During this period, the family unit remains the crucial guiding influence. However, parent - child relationships and family interactions are extremely complex matters.
Most parents have their own ideas on child rearing . Confounding the problem is the  generation gap that confuses parental attitudes towards their children’s behavioural    pattern, besides socio-cultural factors , gender discrimination and educational  competition.


Parental  relationship

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Child Behavioural Pattern

Physical neglect, denial of love and affection, harsh or inconsistent punishment, failure to spend time with the child, lack of interest in his/her activities and achievements and lack of respect for the his rights and feelings as a person.




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Thumb sucking, bed wetting, aggressiveness, negativism. Jealousy, Slowness in conscience development, self-hurting

Over protection and domination. Submissiveness. low self-evaluation, some dulling of intellectual striving, dependency



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Submissiveness. low self-evaluation, some dulling of intellectual striving, dependency.
Over permissiveness and over indulgence.

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Selfishness, demanding attitude, inability to tolerate frustration, lack of responsibility, stubbornness.

Perfectionism with unrealistic demands.

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Severe conflicts, self-condemnation, guilt, rigidness; lack of spontaneity

Lack of discipline, harsh, overly severe discipline, inconsistent discipline.


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Aggressiveness, antisocial behaviour, fear, hatred of parent, little initiative, lack of friendly feelings towards others, over conflicts

Contradictory demands and communications

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Unclear self-identity, lack of initiative, self-devaluation, low self-confidence.



Undesirable parental models.



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Formulation of unrealistic goals, delinquency.  extreme anxiety, nervousness.






































































       Based on this, child rearing attitudes could be improved. Psychological counselling   could  be offered to      
       alleviate healthy parent-child relationship and to prevent certain   unwanted behavioural patterns in    
       children.

      Gitanjali Sharma

      Courtesy : THE HINDU, Sunday, February 26,1995




Thursday, October 6, 2011

DIVINING OF MATERIALS HIDDEN BELOW THE GROUND.

DIVINING OF MATERIALS HIDDEN BELOW THE GROUND.

Many years back I came across this material. I do not recollect the source. It was not from internet as I read this before Internet came in to existence. I have not tried this myself. But I have a firm belief that it will work as the magnetism of the human body is well established / experienced now.

Take 2 lengths of copper wire -1/16" thick and 34" long. Now bend the last 6" of each wire at right angles forming 2 'L's. The short 6" of the wire serve as handle; the long 28" wires serve as pointers.

Hold the 2 rods lightly-one in each hand. They should be 12" apart, parallel to each other and parallel to the ground. The grips should be held loosely in a vertical position. Now commence walking slowly over the ground concentrating on the object of search.

If it is a water pipe your are seeking to find, then when you approach or cross the buried pipe, the divining rods will tremble and swivel inwards and cross over each other at the precise spot.

However, there is a strange anomaly; if your blood group is RH negative, the rods will swivel outward to either side instead of singing inwards and crossing.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Anna Hazare

Dear all,
i got this forward in my in box and i think it is vital that the message spreads to more people. So i have chosen to post it here.


1. Who is Anna Hazare?

An ex-army man. Fought 1965 Indo-Pak War

2. What's so special about him?

He built a village Ralegaon Siddhi in Ahamad Nagar district, Maharashtra

3. So what?

This village is a self-sustained model village. Energy is produced in the
village itself from solar power, biofuel and wind mills. In 1975, it
used to be a poverty clad village. Now it is one of the richest
village in India. It has become a model for self-sustained, eco-friendly &
harmonic village.
4. Ok,...?
Anna Hazare was awarded Padma Bhushan and is a known figure for his
social activities.

5. Really, what is he fighting for?
He is supporting a cause, the amendment of a law to curb corruption in India.

6. How that can be possible?
He is advocating for a Bil, The Jan Lokpal Bill (The Citizen Ombudsman Bill),
that will form an autonomous authority who will make politicians
(ministers), beurocrats
(IAS/IPS) accountable for their deeds.

7. It's an entirely new thing, right..?
In 1972, the bill was proposed by then Law minister Mr. Shanti Bhushan. Since
then it has been neglected by the politicians and some are trying to change the
bill to suit thier theft (corruption).

8. Oh.. He is going on a hunger strike for that whole thing of passing a Bill !
How can that be possible in such a short span of time?
The first thing he is asking for is: the government should come forward and
announce that the bill is going to be passed. Next, they make a joint
committee to DRAFT the JAN LOKPAL BILL. 50% goverment
participation and 50% public participation. Because you cant trust the
government entirely for making such a bill which does not suit them.

9. Fine, What will happen when this bill is passed?
A LokPal will be appointed at the centre. He will have an autonomous charge,
say like the Election Commission of India. In each and every state, Lokayukta
will be appointed. The job is to bring all alleged party to trial in case of
corruptions within 1 year. Within 2 years, the guilty will be punished. Not
like, Bofors scam or Bhopal Gas Tragedy case, that has been going for last 25
years without any result.

10. Is he alone? Whoelse is there in the fight with Anna Hazare?
Baba Ramdev, Ex. IPS Kiran Bedi, Social Activist Swami Agnivesh, RTI activist
Arvind Kejriwal and many more. Now Aamir Khan.

11. Ok, got it. What can I do?
At least we can spread the message. How? By Putting this on our status
message, links, video, changing profile pics...


Mera Bharat Mahan!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Be Indians.

I recently received the following forward from my friend Mr M S Ravikumar.

An American visted India and went back..

His Indian friend Asked : “How was my country?”
American replied: “It’s a great country, with solid ancient history and immensely rich with natural resources..”

His Indian friend Proudly Asked :”How did you find Indians?”
American :”Indians, who Indians? I didn’t find or meet a single Indian there.”

Indian :”What Nonsense? Who else could you meet?”

American-"In Kashmir a Kashmiri, in Punjab, a Punjabi, in Bihar, a Bihari in Maharashtra a Marathi, in Rajastan a Marwadi, in Bengal, a Bengali, in TamilNadu, a Tamilian

This forward I received from another source also a few months back and my reaction at that time was that we are Indians first and last. But getting the forward once again has set me thinking. Why we are not united as the Americans (a pluralistic society)? What prevents us coming near to each other and stand with a single identity? I think the languages divide us .Hence my reply to Mr Ravikumar on the following lines.

Single Nation, single flag, single language. Then we would be speaking in one voice.

Actually we are a collection of States, not like US but as USSR was once . It is just a miracle that we are united despite our regionalism and lack of patriotism. Had the British not ruled us a one State we would have not become a single nation. I am not justifying the regionalism, religion-ism, or caste-ism. But reality is they exist. Parochialism dominates and national interests are pushed to the back ground. It is difficult to lose the regional identity overnight and get integrated to the main stream. Even after more than 50 years of introduction of naya paise ( I was a school boy -1957),we find people talking in terms of ettana (that is half a rupee) till a a few years back nalana (quarter of a rupee) was talked about. Being a Tamilian or Gujarati is not a sin. We should remember that we are first Indians and next whatever we claim we are. The problem is was that Hindi was forced on the South and especially TN and W Bengal, which paved for the feeling of isolation and claim of separate identity. Union can not be brought by law. It has to come by demonstration of love and mutual accommodation .Had English remained as the sole link language this much divisive feelings might not have developed. The British ruled us by division and our Governments today nourish the same policy. To claim that we have 14 national languages is a laughing matter; So much unproductive work is being done because of this.

To call Hindi as the Official language, relegating English to the 2nd place as the link language is still funnier. I personally feel that English, if allowed to continue as the sole language of the Government, both at the centre and States we might have been more united and more progressed, instead of wasting our time and energy in translating English text books into regional languages and doing brain (!) storming to coin equivalent words or expressions to an invention abroad.

We last sense of direction, after the death of Jawaharlal Nehru and drifting apart. Stressing the individuality has undermined the unity. Unity in diversity has come to Diversity at the expense of Unity.In any relationship, some compromise is needed by the individuals involved. To remain as a strong nation and continue as the largest democracy in the world we need a common language like English which is widely spoken and understood through out the subcontinent.Regional languages,including Hindi, can flourish in literature,art , culture , entertainment and of course in local politics,if you treat it as another form of entertainment!