Tuesday, September 29, 2009

RULES OF LIVING.


For this post also I don’t claim any authorship. This was among materials I gathered from library and fellow training faculties when I was a Trainer handling subjects of behavioral science.

Rules of Living :

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.

Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.

Never spend your money before you have it.

Never buy what you do not need because it is cheap.

Pride costs us more than hunger, thirst and cold.

We seldom repent having eaten too little.

Nothing is troublesome if we do it willingly.

Much pain was caused by events that never happened.

Take things always by the smooth handle.

What to do with life?

When it is a challenge, meet it.

When it is a tragedy, face it.

When it is a sorrow, overcome it.

When it is a journey, complete it.

When it is an adventure, dare it.

When it is a struggle, accept it.

When it is a duty, perform it.

When it is an opportunity, utilize it.

When it is a dream, realize it.

When it is a promise, fulfill it.

When it is a game, play it.

When it is bliss, enjoy it.

When it is a song, sing it.

When it is a mystery, unfold it.

When it is a beauty, worship it.

When it is a milestone, keep it in view.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

WINNER AND LOSER

WINNER AND LOSER

The following is what I read some where when I was a faculty in the Staff Training College of my Bank during 1990-96.So I do not claim any authorship for the post. I put it here as the concepts are useful and will make any one introspect why he is considered a failure, while few others succeed - in their career or personal life. The differences between the “Winner” and “Loser” lie in their attitude and perception as can be seen below.

1
The winner is part of the solution.
The loser is always part of the problem.
2
The winner always has a plan.
The loser always has an excuse.
3
The winner says “Let me do it for you”
The loser “That is not my job”
4
The winner sees an answer in every problem.
The loser sees a problem in every answer.
5
The winner sees a green near every sand trap.
The loser sees a sand trap near every green.
6
The winner says “ It may be difficult, but it is possible”.
The loser says,” it may be possible but it is difficult”.

WORDS OF WISDOM.
The six most important words: “I admit I made a mistake”.
The five most important words: “You did a good job”.
The four most important words: “What is your opinion?”
The three most important words: “If you please.”
The two most important words: “Thank you”.
The least important word: “ I .”